GETTING STARTED
This topic is about sanctifying our sexuality. Your small group may want to consider breaking into male and female groups. If you choose to break into male/female groups, make sure there is a leader in both equipped with these questions.
Who influenced you in the way you understood sexuality as a teenager/adult? Was this topic taboo or something you could easily talk about? Explain.
In this passage, Paul continues to encourage them to continue to walk with the Lord and grow in their sanctification. Specifically, Paul applies sanctification to their sexuality.
WE WANT TO:
- Challenge our perspectives and that of our culture.
- Understand how sanctification should impact our sexuality.
- Pray for the Holy Spirit to aid us in walking in holiness.
READ
1 Thessalonians 4:1-8
WATCH
DISCUSS
1. What does “sanctification” mean to you? How do you define it? (See three perspectives: Hebrews 10:10, Hebrews 10:14, & Romans 6:22). How are you being sanctified now? Explain.
2. How would you respond to the statement, “All sex is good as long as you don’t hurt someone”? How would you rephrase that statement?
3. What does it look like for a church to control and honor God with our bodies? What would the world/our culture say in response?
4. What other parts of Scripture shed light on this topic (e.g., Old Testament, Jesus, other writings by Paul, 1 Cor 6:18-20.)? How do we see God responding to those who have failed to control their bodies? (See David and Bathsheba, 1 Cor 5:1-5 & 2 Cor 2:5-8, 1 Cor 6:9-11)
5. What are some steps you can take to avoid sexual immorality? How can these help you live a sanctified and sexually pleasing life to God?
6. The church in Thessalonica had to make a strong stand against the behavior and attitudes of their culture to please God with their bodies. In what ways do we need to make a stand against our culture so we can please God, rather than culture? Explain.
7. How can you apply this message/discussion to your life? How can you help each other in your small group honor and control your bodies?
8. Are there other areas in your life you need to let the Holy Spirit work in your life to bring sanctification?
9. Take time to pray for our church in our sexual holiness and sanctification.